That means that this goodbye is both a goodbye for the past ten thousand years and a prelude to what will come. And maybe each time, we’ve been forced apart for the same reasons. Maybe we’ve lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them we’ve found each other. The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.Life is complicated, and circumstances sometimes can be cruel. (2) Despite the uncertainty of that, a grain of hope can do wonders. And that you are hoping to see your friend again. ⦁ Saying farewell to a friend and wishing them well is all right and it can help ease up the pain. Though you may have been used to dealing with your daily struggles with your pal by your side, realize this could be the time for you to grow and become the person you want to be. Accept you got to walk your journey on your own and then meet new friends along the way. Sustaining friendship, for instance, can be hard if separated by great distances. The reason for the friendship breakup may simply be beyond you and your friend’s control. Here are some suggested ways to cope after separating from a friend: Ending a friendship has nowhere else to go.įriendship breakups can be confusing. We allow it to end naturally.Ī friendship doesn’t have the same option as a romantic relationship where the possibility exists to stay friends.
The consequence is we feel the friendship isn’t working. We tend to keep our feelings bottled up instead of being more precise in what we want and what we are expecting. “We don’t want to express our needs and have them rejected,” Kirmayer explains. You can’t find the words to bridge the gap. Or, you and your friend simply have chosen different life paths or styles. It may be due to distance or an opportunity for growth. Sometimes the cause of friendship breakups is a factor that is beyond you and your friend’s control. And if we do decide to address it, it’s hard to know what to say,” she adds. “Whatever the reason is for the dissolution of a friendship, the common thread is that we often don’t know if we should have a conversation with that friend.
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